LolaAug 26, 20184 min12 years a slave (December 2013)I saw it twice about a month apart, and I'm still haunted by it. Even beginning to read about it again gets me very emotional, it breaks...
LolaAug 26, 20184 minThe Fluidity (October 2013)I went to the skating rink on a night I don't usually go, and found myself to be the only female of color there. It was unusual to me...
LolaAug 26, 20182 minDenial (August 2013)I feel a little scared and I don't know where to start. I suppose I can start with a conversation I had last week. An African American...
LolaAug 26, 20183 minHow do I look (March 2013)A few months ago in a team meeting, I shared with my colleagues that I assume when people look at me they see Black, not necessarily...
LolaAug 19, 20181 minIdentity Develops Over TimeBefore I ever had the confidence to believe I could build a therapy practice targeting people having Mixed Race experiences, I blogged...
LolaMar 13, 20182 minSo uh... are we gonna talk about this or...The first time I went to therapy, I was in my late twenties and living a double life - conservative Christian bible college by day (hey,...